London Dominatrix Diaries June - A Tall Dominatrix in Portugal, Paris and Berlin

June was a month of rest, learning and relaxation for Me. In the early part of the month, a returning submissive treated Me to a fantastic meal at Murano by Angela Hartnett, and was duly rewarded with a hot and heavy tie and tease session.

I had a well deserved break mid month to Portugal with My girlfriends for Angelina Harlow’s birthday celebrations, accompanied with lots of wine, great food and laughs.

The latter half of June brought me to Paris for a brief stopover at Les Fete Des Dames, where I attended workshops by the likes of Midori. As a tall dominatrix, I always prioritise furthering My skills and deepening My expertise.

Travelling onward to Berlin I met with sub C, who has been trying to get My attention for quite some time. We had a beautiful omakase and sake pairing at Shiori followed by a wild Berlin night, the details of which will stay strictly between he and I. All I’ll say is I’m not just a tall Dominatrix, I’m also a great guide to the demimonde.

Sub C and I parted with promises of future debauchery even further afield, and I enjoyed the rest of My weekend in Berlin catching up with friends and My regular submissives. I was incredibly grateful to catch Mistress Chiaki’s workshop on Sunday, after regretfully missing out on a slot in her London based workshop.

I was lucky enough to attend a one on one workshop with Mistress Chiaki in 2022 on My trip to Tokyo, and I was eager to refresh the skills I learned previously. Mistress Chiaki’s philosophy of "enforced mindfulness" is something that has deeply informed My practice and I admire the way that she uses rope as a way to create connection with her clients. It continues to influence My work as a tall Dominatrix who values intensity, presence, and psychological depth.

I see what I do as a tall Dominatrix not simply a dynamic of Dominance and submission, but the cultivation of a relationship, one based on a shared desire to explore some deeper aspects of human consciousness and interrelations. I coined the term “mutually assured degeneracy” a number of years ago to describe this dynamic. Play, and sessions are not just something I am doing to you, they are something we are doing together; we are both exploring the depths of our perversions. Playing with power dynamics is but one small part of this practice, incorporating eroticism, taboo, shadow-play, fetishism, trance states, the sublime and the abject and many many more facets of human sub/consciousness.

Learning from the likes of Mistress Chiaki and Midori is both a privilege and a pleasure. One of the reasons I enjoy My profession so much is because it necessitates lifelong learning. It is both a joy and a responsibility to constantly seek out new information, new ways to infiltrate My submissive’s minds, and to build on My skillset. Now I look forward to putting all these new tricks to work… click here to offer yourself up as a test subject.